Achieving a Balanced Give-and-Take With Men

As a result of male-dominated societies, many men struggle to open up about emotions and feelings. They often experience societal pressures to “show no weakness.” Men can create emotional distance in their relationships by withdrawing and hiding, or by blaming other people for the distance they are feeling. Regardless of what is creating the distance, it’s important for partners to develop communication skills that encourage an exchange of support.

Consider how much time you spend with your family and friends, and your hobbies or personal growth. It’s a good idea to prioritize these areas of your life over your relationship, but you should also make sure to allow for some “me” time as well. Remember, as Mr. Miyagi advised Daniel-San in The Karate Kid, “Whole life have a balance. That’s the secret.” You reap what you sow. You can’t expect to get a lot of love and support if you don’t give a lot back. Achieving a Balanced Give-and-Take with Men